Monday 23 February 2015

Bahagia itu bila kita taat perintah Allah.. chaiyokkk..


Tanyalah Iman Kita (copy)
Mulut sentiasa berbicara tentang cintakan Ilahi, namun hati sibuk mencari cinta pujaan hati. Suara lantang menegakkan kebenaran, namun jiwa ingin merasai nikmat percintaan yang tidak ditabalkan. Munajat mengalir di ruang lidah, namun jasad tak kuat nak bermujahadah. Kita bilang sayangkan DIA, tapi hakikatnya, si dia tetap pertama di sanubari kita. Kita janji dalam solat yang hidup dan mati kita hanya untuk-NYA tapi usaha kita lebih ke arah mengejar cinta si dia. Kita impikan Syurga namun jalan ke Neraka yang memenuhi langkah kita. Adakah kita letakkan DIA hanya di bibir tanpa membuktikannya?? Kerana dia, kita pinggirkan DIA. Adakah DIA berpuas hati?? Tepuk dada, tanya iman kita yang masih bersisa.. Ooo Allah jagakan aku, dia & kami semua dengan sepenuh iman... Lahawlawalakuwataillabillahilaliulazim..

πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•




"Jika kita korbankan kehendak dan keinginan kita kerana untuk menunaikan perintah Allah. Allah akan beri sesuatu yang jauh lebih baik.."



EBIT LEW
Sayang dan kasihan pada anak muda yang terlalai yang sebenarnya mereka baik.

Saya ditanya beberapa lelaki bersama anak muda perempuan yang telah cukur kening dan rambut warna merah di sebuah restoren mamak pagi tadi pukul 4 pagi. 

Tanya mereka bagaimana yer abang jika kami anak muda nafsu muda ni nak lawan nafsu jahat. Nanti banyak benda nikmat dunia kami hilang. Takkan kami nak duduk masjid jadi macam pak aji pak pak aji tu.

Jawab saya, Kadang-kadang yang kita nak tak semestinya baik. Yang kita tak nak tak semestinya buruk. Bahagia ni Allah beri. Bila dia nak beri tiada siapa boleh halang. Nanti kita tak sangka rahmat disebalik kesabaran nak buat baik. Kita tersenyum sepanjang hidup kerana bahagia atas kesabaran dari buat jahat. Saya ceritakan kisah ini pada mereka.

Seorang lelaki suka mencuri. Dia malam-malam tumpang tidur di masjid. Satu hari dia terdengar satu ceramah kata "Jika kita korbankan kehendak dan keinginan kita kerana untuk menunaikan perintah Allah. Allah akan beri sesuatu yang jauh lebih baik..

Seperti biasa di nak pergi mencuri. Masa dia masuk rumah nak mencuri dia nampak barang kemas emas dan duit. Dia nak ambil tapi teringat ceramah tadi. Allah beri sesuatu yang lebih baik. Dia tak jadi ambil..

Nampak pula ada seorang wanita dalam rumah. Teringin nak buat jahat. Wanita tadi menjerit takut. Dia teringat jika tinggal yang jahat Allah beri sesuatu yang lebih baik..

Dia terus balik masjid. Dia menangis kerana serabut dan rasa apa yang lebih baik. Dia berdoa. Banyak hari dia menangis.

Wanita tadi cari maknya dan minta tolong carikan jodoh. Ibunya pergi ke masjid. Dia asyik nampak seorang imam menangis di saf pertama.

Dia kata "tuan imam ke?ish tak ler makcik. Saya orang jahat..

Rendah diri anak muda ini..begini makcik ada anak perempuan. Makcik nak cari calon. Boleh tolong carikan ke pak imam. 

Ish saya bukan imam.
Makcik tadi terus ceritakan kisah rompakan dan orang jahat tu..

Anak muda tadi kata saya ler orang jahat dan perompak tadi.

Kata makcik tadi, baiknya anak muda ni rendah diri.

Akhirnya takdir Allah.dia dapat kahwin dengan wanita tadi. Dia berubah jadi baik..

Hidupnya senang dan dekat pada Allah. Dia bersyukur.

Siapapun balik pada Allah dia akan bahagia. Selagi dia hidup. Dia diberi peluang dan disayangi oleh Allah. Siapa kita hari ini memberi kesan di masa hadapan. Dia muliakan siapa dia nak muliakan. Dia hina siapa Dia nak hina. Nabi Yusuf as dalam penjara kerana Taat Allah. Dia bahagia bukan saat dia mendapat kedudukan dan kekayaan. Tapi saat dia taat Allah. Taat itulah bahagia.

Mereka kata bestlah cerita tu abang. Ni alamat rumah kami nanti abang datang cerita lagi. Saya jawab awak ikut abang belajar iman beberapa hari nanti awak cerita kat abang pula betapa nikmatnya Islam ini. Tiada kata boleh gambarkan saat kita berada di masjid dan taman syurga-ebit lew

people are not mind readers.. you have to tell what u feel.. ACSK.

Yer.. Nak tau sangat apa yang awak fikirkan.. Apa dalam hati awak.. Tolong bagi tau semuanya.. I'm dying to know.. Baik atau buruk.. Semuanya ku ingin tau..πŸ’•πŸ˜–πŸ˜πŸ˜“









Aliza Kim
"I'm Married, Get me out Of Here!" By Sheikh Omar Suleman (On Divorce)

Scenario: A pair who after a few months of marriage have found that feelings have changed and are now in severe hardship.

Why does this happen?

(1) No Premarital Preparation
What's needed is premarital counseling. Just like a driving test that needs both a written and practical test...a couple needs to be trained and educated.
-Being "in love" is temporary. Also there needs to be a way to differentiate between love and infatuation.
-Needs, expectations and preferences begin to become apparent after some time. Love is never enough. Love changes. Love will not get you through everything, it will not get you through every obstacle, it is not enough to work things out.
-Marriages often are not pleasing to Allah SWT so how can they survive, how can they be successful? They don't start right according to the sunnah and so problems start right away. There are many examples but one is having an extravagant walimah putting the couple in financial strain from the beginning.

(2) Outside interference - Your in-laws, parents, friends. You should never have to choose between your parents and spouse. Anyone who does this should be reminded to fear Allah SWT.

(3) Unable to communicate - They just can't talk. They feel that he or she should "just know...can't they see?" People are not mind readers. You have to tell your spouse what you feel to find solutions.

(4) Trail and Error Mentality - You cannot just try one person and if it doesn't work then go to the next. You can't do this because you are dealing with people. They are not objects that can just be switched out. There will be emotional damage.

- If you are in a marriage that cannot work anymore and you have done all you can then now you must speak about divorce as a part of Islam. PROPHET MUHAMMAD SAW ALSO DIVORCED SOME OF HIS WIVES and he was the best person who has ever lived. The sahabah also divorced. But you must divorce for your Deen not simply for happiness (although relief, happiness and peace can come from it). After divorcing this should make you better in your Deen. Don't make divorce an excuse to become lax in your religion, it should free you from hardship so it is easier for you in your Deen.
-Remember istiqarah - If your marriage cannot go on then ask for Allah SWT specifically to facilitate the exit for you then act.
**If you must separate, separate in the best way possible. Fear Allah SWT and do it in the best way you can.

LOCAL TRIVIA
-One of the highest causes of divorce in Malaysia is because women have financial independence. Women don't need to put effort to stay in a marriage due to fear of financial hardship. They are not dependent on their husband so it's easier to just walk away.
-In Malaysia there is 1 divorce every 10 minutes, some say 4 minutes.





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Sunday 22 February 2015

50 years down the road, I'm still crazy about you.. ACR

@majlis104


50 years down the road, I'm still crazy about you..

Wow..
Untunglar bagi mereka yang dianugerahkan cinta sebegitu..

Me?
Ada ker yang crazy kat saya?
Rasanya tak kut.. Tak jumpa pun.. Huhu.. Atau dah jumpa.. Tapi tak pasti.. Awak ker? Hmmm.. Kena tunggu lagi 30 tahun lah kut.. Nak tengok masa tu crazy lagi ker? Ker saye yang crazy sorang2.. Huhu..


The right person that was meant to love you the way you always wanted..

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Awak kat mana? Awak kat mana? Awak kat mana?


# cinta tidak semestinya bersatu namun kasih berakar selamanya di dalam hati..
  - pilot cafe -

Ps : jom kita tengok movie ni..😎😘😝
(Tetiba terasa nk p tengok movie.. Bila ntah kali terakhir tengok wayang..)




"I want somebody thats crazy about me... I'm tired being the crazy one.."




I want to be crazy in love.

by Brigitte
I want one of those marriages where they’ve been married 20 years but are still crazy in love and still cuddle on the couch and kiss a lot. I want the kind of marriage that make my kids nauseous because of how in love their parents are.





Wednesday 18 February 2015

cintamu mekar di hati.. ACDYL

Jiwang pulak petang2 ni...

Yer betul.. Memang mekar di hati.. Serius ni.. Tak tipu.. 



πŸ’•πŸ˜˜πŸ’œπŸ’–πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ’‘πŸ’“πŸ’œπŸ’šπŸ’—πŸ’˜πŸ’πŸ’žπŸ’ŸπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•





Kau umpama bunga
yang mekar di hatiku
Ku harap kau mekarlah
selama-lamanya

Kau umpama bintang
menyinari hidupku
Ku harap kau
terus bersinar

Di ketika kau
Perlukan aku
Sentiasa aku
Ada di sisimu
Di ketika
Rindu padamu
Terasa cinta
Semakin dalam

Sayang
Kasihku abadi
Cintamu mekar
Di hati ini

Kau dalam ingatan
Di sepanjang hayatku
Demi teguhnya cinta
Selama-lamanya 



### layanzzz..πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

Adam & hafazan.. Al-Quran..














Uda Adam.. Itu panggilan untuk Adam.. Kenapa uda? Sebab muda lagi dah jadi abang.. Masa Adam 11  bulan lebih ibu dah mengandungkan Aisy.. So, abang yang muda or uda.. Lagi pun ibu bosan asyik2 along angah along angah.. Semua orang pun anak2 ada along angah.. Bosan kan?

Ok, uda Adam mula menghafaz Al Quran sejak berumur 5 tahun.. Ia bermula bila kami hantar Adam & Aisy ke tadika pra tahfiz @ ICPC.. Jazakallahkhairan pada kak ros yang dah bagi peluang Adam & Aisy belajar di situ.. Sangat2 berterima kasih.. Everything happens for a reason kan? Kalau kita nak jadi baik, insyaAllah,  Allah akan hantar orang yang baik2 untuk kita.. Tolonglah istiqamah wahai ibu & ayah..

Apa pun ibu berbangga dengan pencapaian Adam.. Ibu sendiri pun tak pernah ada pencapaian sebaik Adam.. Tahniah Adam.. Ibu sayang Adam.. Infiniti..





i want to be a part of your life.. ACSK

Aku mahukan diri mu sebagai ..



" I want to be a part of your life..
I want to melekat with you 24-7..
I want to be with you when you sleep, when you eat, when you mandi, when you berangan.." 

I want to be with you..
Semuanya..


“I want all of you, forever, you and me every day.” – The Notebook








Tuesday 17 February 2015

if i love you.. i do it with all my Heart.. ACSK


If someone really loves youno matter how many other people they meet, their feelings for you wouldn't change. A real lover can't be stolen.



Care is not a business where you give and get it back. It's a beautiful feeling for someone whom you love to give....... Even if you don't get back.. Take care..

If I luv U..
I do it with all my HEART..


Someone who says I love u & means it..

Find someone who openly communicates their feelings. Someone who realizes that you’re not perfect and never expects you to be. Someone who would never want to lose you and feels so blessed to be with you. One who gives their heart completely. Someone who says I love you and means it. Last but not least, find someone who looks forward to a future with you and with each and every new day, falls in love with you all over again. -Brigitte Nicole










If I love you, I won’t give up easily. Leaving is my last option, but if you push me away I will walk away knowing I gave it my all..





Tuesday 10 February 2015

forever.. ACSK








Ku percaya kau selalu di sisiku
Walaupun jasadmu tiada
Walau di mana kau berada
Kasihku takkan berubah


😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

Hingga Akhir Nanti..

Hingga akhir nanti
kau tetap jadi pujaan 
walau seribu tahun
walau seribu zaman 
kutetap menanti

Hingga akhir nanti 
kau saja idaman hati
segala rasa cinta 
segala rasa sayang
hanyalah untukmu
hingga akhir nanti

Bulan takkan terang 
tanpa seri wajahmu
hati takkan tenang 
tanpa kehadiranmu
rindu dalam sepi 
rindu dalam mimpi
kutetap menanti
hingga akhir nanti

Datanglah kekasih datanglah padaku
kesetiaan diriku janganlah kau ragu
betapa kukasih betapa kurindu
seandainya kau tahu benarnya cintaku..






Monday 9 February 2015

Dear Allah.. help me to forget & forgive.. ACSK

http://littleieekospeaks.blogspot.com/2011/09/my-prayer-to-allah.html?m=1









and He is with you, wherever you are.” (57:4)




The stronger your imaan is, the more Allah will test you.

And If Allah brings you to it, then He will get you through it.


Oh Allah,
I told you: I’m facing a lot of difficulties in life.
And You said: ‘And whoever fears Allah – He will make for him/her a way out’ (65:2)



If he isn’t right for me Ya Allah - then take him away from me. If I can't have him in this dunya, allow me to forget him. If he isn't the one that will love me, raise children with me, and have us live together than take him away and have me forget. Help me to remind myself that I will only be his friend. Not more than that. Strengthen our friendship forever so that I wont lose him.


But if Your plans prove otherwise; he is the one for me - allow me to be so close to You, Ya Allah. Let our struggles be for Your sake and bless us with patience and courage. Humble us and protect us Oh Allah.


And Ya Allah; Guide me! Amin :')





P/s: I don’t worry about the love between you and I. I know that if we both love Allah (tabarak wa ta’ala) and seek His pleasure, He will cultivate the love between us.




InsyaAllah :)






* You have been the one constant in my life for at least 15 years now. I can’t give up. Not until or even you ask me to..











*** Dear Allah,  help me to forget my feelings & to forgive myself..πŸ”š

Saturday 7 February 2015

miss u so much.. forever & ever.. ACR

Rinduuunya.. 
Rindu sangat pada awak.. 
Kenapa rindu sangat ni?
Rindu sampai nangis..
Teruknya..
Kenapa sampai macam ni sekali?
Agaknya saya ada masalah mental ke?
Hari2 pun boleh nangis sebab rindu..
Tolong..
😭😭😭


🎢🎼🎀...walau sedetik rindu mencengkam terasa pedih.. 🎀🎼🎢 DN - DPS


🎢🎼🎀 ...mana nak ku hamparkan rindu tiada kesudahan... 🎀🎼🎢 Aliyah - SSN






Missing someone isn't about how long since you've seen them or the amount of time you've talked to them. It's about that very moment when you're doing something and wishing they were right there for you..



Just because you miss someone, doesn't mean you need them back in your life.. Missing is just a part of moving on..





Monday 2 February 2015

find someone who..

Be with someone who will watch your favorite movies with you. Be with someone who makes you laugh until your stomach hurts. Be with someone who wants to go places with you, whether it’s to go shopping, to a wedding or to travel the world. Be with someone who makes you tea when you’re sick or feeling down. Be with someone who makes the sun shine a little brighter. Be with someone who makes you want to be a better person. Be with someone who enhances your life..


I just want someone who won’t get annoyed when I text them six times or in all caps. Someone I can go on long drives with and can sing along to the radio with. Someone I can eat pizza with at 2am and kiss at 6pm. Someone who chooses me every day and never thinks twice.





Someone who would never want to lose you..
Find someone who openly communicates their feelings. Someone who realizes that you are not perfect and never expect you to be.. Someone who would never want to lose you and feels so blessed to be with you. Someone who gives their heart completely. Someone who says I love you and means it. Last, but not least, find someone who looks forward to a feature with you and with each every new day, falls in love with you all over again..


When you find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will stand in front of you when other’s cast stones, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep, who will hold your hand when you’re sick, who thinks you’re beautiful without makeup, the one who turns to his friends and say, ‘that’s her’, the one that would bear your rejection because losing you means losing his future. Who kisses you when you mess up, watches the stars and names one for you and will hold and rock that baby for hours so you can sleep…..you would marry him all over again.”
― Shannon L. Alder