bila nk settle? ermmm..

Settle for the kind of love that’s extraordinary in all of its ordinariness. Find the person who makes you feel excited to spend Saturday doing nothing, as long as you’re doing nothing with them.

Settle for the kind of love that makes you unbelievably happy to sit there and spend your Sunday night sending work emails, or folding your clothes after pulling them out of the dryer, or chopping up vegetables while you make your meals for the week – as long as they are sitting next to you and keeping you company. Because no matter what you’re doing, no matter how boring the task, it’s still so wonderful if you get to be near them while you do it.

Settle for the kind of love where you feel like you can just talk to them. Like you don’t have to be funny or clever or entertaining enough to ‘earn’ their attention. You can just talk to them and say the things that are on your mind and admit if you’re stressed about work or that you’re missing your mom – and you won’t worry about boring them or chasing them away with your uneventfulness, because the two of you have formed the kind of bond that strips away all expectations of being interesting and fascinating and cool all the time, and instead just lets you be your damn selves.

Settle for the kind of love that simultaneously makes you feel accepted for who you are but also makes you want to be a better person.
Find someone who encourages you and supports you and loves you for you. But also, find someone whom you admire so much and respect so much and like so much that you instinctively just want to be a better person, every day, because you feel safe and supported enough to try for it, even if you fail.

Find someone who looks at you and sees you. Someone who puts their phone down, not just when you’re upset, but even just when you’re there, in front of them, and they want to show you that you matter more to them than a bunch of things happening inside of a little rectangle that will still be there in five minutes from now. Find someone who looks you in the eye and makes you feel seen and hears you but also listens to you. Find someone who makes you want to do the same for them.

Settle for the kind of love that is hard, and challenging, and so worth every ounce of effort and sacrifice and joy that you put into it. Settle for the kind of love that is rare in its everyday sense of happiness and contentment, the kind of love that grows out of little, tiny moments of affection and thoughtfulness and tenderness and warmth. Settle for that kind of love, and you won’t be settling for anything.

Written by Kim Quindlen..

hug..

Please take note.. (Not just note but action my dear..)



Kebanyakan suami tidak memahami mengapa isteri sangat suka apabila dipeluk. Bagi suami, pelukan hanyalah pertautan fizikal, dan ada kalanya merimaskan. Sedangkan bagi isteri, pelukan menyimpan erti lebih mendalam dan memberi manfaat besar bagi kesihatan jiwa.

Saya pernah diberitahu oleh seorang pesakit wanita, semangatnya lemah kerana suami tiada di rumah dan jarang memeluknya. Bila suami memeluknya, baru terasa semangat dan tubuh menjadi lebih bertenaga.

Walaupun ia mungkin benar dari sudut psychology, tetapi dari segi physiologinya juga mengatakan ‘pelukan mesra suami mampu mengeluarkan hormone oxytocin’ dalam tubuh isteri dan memberikan kesan tersebut.

Oleh itu para suami, peluklah isteri, belai lembut rambutnya, sentuh wajahnya, gosok lembut lengannya, kaitkan jari-jemari tangan anda dengan jari-jemarinya, gosok lembut punggungnya, dan sentiasa menjaga pandangan mata anda dengan matanya.

Pelukan membuatkan pasangan merasa lebih dekat dan intim. Bagi isteri, pelukan merupakan bentuk komitmen cinta dan kesetiaan pasangan.

Biasanya suami menganggap bahawa pelukan bermakna isteri dahagakan hubungan seksual, tetapi sebenarnya para isteri lebih menikmati pelukan dari hubungan seksual.

Oleh itu para suami, jangan rasa ‘kelam kabut’ jika tidak bersedia bila isteri minta dipeluk. Dan isteri tolong beritahu suami, ..”please, I just a hug..” dan jangan mengharap suami faham kehendak puan tanpa diucap.

Kredit : #drzubaidi..

no name..

Friends book of 2016! ��

1. My name in your phone ___(no name)___
2. Relation between u n me ____a m l..(soulmate)____
3.Any name u would like 2 call me____sayang..______
4. What will be your reaction when you will find out that I am dead. ______shaking.._____
5. The thing you like most in my face____ur smile..__
6. One thing that you love the most about me ___humble_____
7. If you got a chance to ask me smthng about my personal life? ___(i cant ask u now bcoz its so personal)..__
8.Your first reaction on my first look ____soulmate..__
9.How long u want me in your life____till jannah.._______
10.Song Wanna Dedicate me ____a m l, dirgahayu, thank you for loving me, cinta dalam hati, terlalu cinta, terlanjur cinta, kenangan terindah, andainya takdir & so many more..
11. Movie wanna dedicate to me___my best friend wedding.._____




Sras & ilusm..

as much as u do..

I want you as much as you do..



When you meet your soulmate, let the connection, the relationship be what it is. It may be five minutes, five hours, five days, five months, five years or a lifetime. Let it manifest itself, the way it’s meant to. It has a destiny. This way, if it stays or if it leaves, you will be softer from having been loved. Souls come into, return, open, and sweep through your life for a myriad of reasons, let them be who and what they are meant to be.”



Just remember that forever..

Sras..



Love isn’t always perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or a storybook. And it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on & never letting go. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define, & impossible to live without. Love is work, but most of all, Love is realizing that every hour, every minute, & every second was worth it because you did it together..

bcoz i luv u.. ACDYL

I luv u not him..

I want u more than u want me..

I want all of u.. Every inch..& soul..






Sras..

lifebegin@40..

Assalamualaikum..

40 tahun berlalu..

04121976 - 04122016

Moga hari2 mendatang diberi lebih kekuatan fizikal & mental untuk menempuhinya dengan jalan yang diredhaiNya..

Doakan saya yang baik2.. Doakan saya bahagia dunia akhirat..

Tak tau nk buat apa hari ni.. Rasa nk pegi BTS tapi takdek geng pulak.. Pergi sorang3 ok ker idak?
How i wish you were here.. I want to go with you..



#SRAS..

semua Untukmu..AML.. - gv061116-

1. Bunga Angkasa..

2. Doa Buat Kekasih..

3. Terlanjur Cinta..

4. Aku Yang Tersakiti..

5.  Nilai Cinta..

6. Lamunan Terhenti..

7. Jangan Menangis Sayang..

 8. Rindu Bayangan..

9. Pada Syurga di Wajahmu..

10. Lelaki Ini..





SRAS..