don't you?

You miss him, don't you? I know you do. I know missing him is keeping you up. I know missing him makes it hard to sleep. I know missing him has your mind feeling troubled. I know missing him has your heart aching. But honestly, think about this. Do you think he's out there missing you, too? Do you think he's out there thinking about you, too? Do you think he's out there losing sleep because of you, too? Do you think he's out there feeling the same way towards you, too? You've been holding on to this for so long, but have you ever asked yourself what you're even holding to anymore? Is there even something to hold to? Maybe you're just being too stubborn to let go of the memory of what your relationship with him once was, or maybe you're just being too hopeful that everything will fall back into place with him one day, but deep down, I know you know it's truly over this time around. I know your heart feels like it's in the right place, but maybe, just maybe, your heart
should be on you and only you instead of
someone who's heart is no longer on you and
hasn't been for awhile. Don't waste any more
time than you already have. Don't chase
something that no longer wants to be caught by you. Don't spend your energy fighting with your feelings to decide whether or not it's time to move on. Start putting yourself first. Start going after your own happiness. Start being in love with yourself again.

- Oberoi Aaryan

bahagia & sejahtera..

Kita rasa malas nak kejut isteri bangun pagi,

Kita tak sedar ada lelaki lain yang setiap pagi akan kejutkan dia dan memberi kekuatan hari-hari.

Kita rasa malas nak buatkan sarapan pagi untuk suami,

Tapi kita tak tahu,di ofis ada wanita yang dah siapkan sarapan malah sanggup teman suami kita lagi.

Kita malas nak ingatkan isteri jaga solat dan makan tengahari,

Lalu ada lelaki yang ajak isteri berjemaah di tempat kerja dan lepas solat isteri kita makan sekali dengan lelaki yang lebih mengambil berat hal ini.

Kita malas nak call, whatapp, video call, dan berusaha menjadikan hubungan suami isteri itu indah,

Akhirnya suami dan isteri kita di temani oleh mereka yang lebih memahami dan mengerti.

Sikap malas yang membina dosa dan tanpa sedar ia membunuh hati dan jiwa dua manusia yang dulunya mahu bersama ke syurga.

Sikap malas ini lah yang membuatkan rumah hanya tempat untuk suami isteri makan minum dan membuat hubungan sahaja.

Selepas itu, masing-masing mencari keseronokan di daerah luar dari hidup mereka.

Seronok di tempat kerja,

Derita di dalam rumahtangga.

Tak mudah menjadi suami dan isteri di akhir zaman ini. Kita kehilangan Tuhan hari-hari. Kita kehilangan gelak tawa anak sendiri. Kita hilang senyum antara suami dan isteri.

Belum terlambat untuk suami isteri itu kembali kepada fitrah mereka,

Iaitu BAHAGIA DAN SEJAHTERA.

credit to ustaz Abu Hurairah Asifa




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I think the biggest mistake I made when I got married is assuming that life was now about having two of everything. Having two cars to get around the city, ordering two plates whenever we went out to eat, or buying two of everything to make sure both of us were happy.

At a Majlis one day I heard a beautiful story of an elderly Arab couple who were so in love that they could only eat when they were together and from the same plate. They said it brought them closer, the husband would cut pieces of meat just the way his wife liked it, and the wife knew just the right amount of yogurt her husband liked on his rice. They didn't have to ask or say anything, both of them knew exactly what the other wanted. It was beautiful.

Since hearing that story my wife and I always eat from the same plate and only order one drink to share. What this taught us is the value of sharing in a relationship and how sharing brings two people closer together. When you share you learn about the other person, what they like or what they don't like. When you share you always have to consider the other person just as much as you consider yourself, and that is what love is all about.

Love is about giving a part of yourself to the other person, love is about always thinking about your partner's feelings when you make a decision, love is about agreeing together on one thing that makes you both happy, and you will practice all those things when you share who you are, what you want, and even what you eat with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with..

over thinking

Kenapa gadis bijak selalunya 'overthinking'?

Ini jawapannya :
Dia cuba untuk membaca orang di sekelilingnya, supaya dia tidak melepasi batasan.

Dia tidak ingin melakukan sesuatu yang bodoh, seperti jatuh cinta terhadap orang yang tidak merasakan yang sama atau mengganggu kawan yang ingin bersendirian..
-pdh-



"If you love something, love it completely, cherish it, say it, but most importantly, show it. Life is finite and fragile, and just because something is there one day, it might not be the next. Never take that for granted. Say what you need to say, then say a little more. Say too much. Show too much. Love too much. Everything is temporary but love. Love outlives us all.”




Nothing loses my interest faster than someone lying to me..


#rumahtanggabahagiaselamanya..


Jom kenal perempuan dgn lebih mendalam. -take note guys.
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1. Perempuan adalah makhluk yang …paling sensitif bila diorang tengah datang bulan. Ni kita panggil sindrom datang bulan (PMS). *amaran: jangan pernah buat mereka marah masa ni..
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2. Perempuan paling suka berborak. Jadilah pendengar yang setia.
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3. Perempuan suka ambil gambar banyak-banyak untuk jadikan kenangan. Jadi tak hairan lah kalau dalam tandas pun mereka nak.
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4. Perempuan kalau memuji perempuan lain memang tak akan habis.
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5. Perempuan paling suka makan. Lepas tu mulalah bising berat dah naik. *diet
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6. Bila buah hati mereka tak balas mesej dalam tempoh yang lama, 3 perkara yang berada di fikiran mereka samada mereka rasa bf mengabaikan mereka, bf marahkan mereka atau bf rasa mereka menjengkelkan atau menganggu.
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7. Perempuan sukakan pujian, lebih2 lagi dari seseorang yang mereka sukai.
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8. Bila perempuan marah mereka bukan sengaja nak marah tapi sebab mereka sayang dan ambil berat.
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9. Perempuan yang paling garang sebelum kahwin adalah isteri yang paling manja.
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10. Bila seseorang perempuan jatuh hati, mereka akan mengatakan kenapa mereka tak berjumpa dengan orang itu lebih awal.
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11. Perempuan sukakan lelaki yang bersikap melindungi, tapi jangan terlalu melindungi sampai mengongkong pula..
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12. Perempuan tak kan pernah dapat mencari perkara negatif pasal seseorang yang mereka sukai setelah mereka jatuh cinta.
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13. Bila perempuan benci kan seseorang jangan terkejut bila bestfriend mereka pun ikut sama benci dekat orang tu.
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14. Perempuan bila melayan bestfriend mereka kalah pasangan bercinta, sampai orang lain pun boleh jealous dengan kemesraan mereka..
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15. Bila sedih, perempuan suka dipeluk sebab mereka rasa selamat.
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16. Kadang-kadang perempuan suka bagi petunjuk dekat seseorang yang mereka sayang tentang apa yang mereka suka *tetapi tulah lelaki ni tak faham bahasa isyarat.
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17. Walaupun mempunyai kawan lelaki dan peminat yang ramai tapi dalam masa yang sama dalam fikiran diorang hanya ada seseorang yang mereka sayang sahaja.
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18. Bila perempuan mula cemburu mereka boleh jadi detective yang paling berjaya tanpa disyaki oleh si lelaki. Kalau boleh sampai lubang cacing pun mereka selidik.
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19. Perempuan suka banyak berfikir dan suka buat kesimpulan yang bukan2 tentang buah hati mereka.Tapi sebenarnya apa yang mereka fikirkan tu tak berlaku pun. Risau tak sudah.
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20. Walaupun dah banyak baju tapi tetap mengatakan tiada baju untuk dipakai.
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21. Perempuan akan berasa cemburu bila ternampak kekasih mereka dengan perempuan lain walaupun sekadar kawan.
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22. Jangan tipu kami kerana kami akan selalu dapat tahu.
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23.Walaupun bersedih perempuan tetap akan tersenyum. Mereka akan nangis secara senyap dan boleh berpura-pura ceria semula di hadapan orang.
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24. Air mata adalah senjata wanita.
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25. Bila perempuan senyap secara tiba2 maka hairan lah sebab ada sesuatu yang berlaku disitu.
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26. Jangan lupakan tarikh lahir seseorang perempuan sebab perempuan sentiasa menunggu si dia wish happy birthday walaupun tiada hadiah. Cukup sekadar mengingat untuk menunjukkan mereka dihargai si dia.
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27. Perempuan dapat mengingat walaupun perkara kecil jika dibandingkan lelaki. Sebab tulah bila lelaki mungkir janji mereka akan ingat sampai bila2.
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28. Kalau perempuan selalu menghubungi awak tu sebab mereka tak nak lost contact dari awak.
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29. Walaupun busy macam mana pun tolonglah luangkan sedikit masa untuk perempuan sebab mereka ni agak mudah berkecil hati. Pasti akan ada perasaan sedih.
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30. Bila seseorang perempuan sudah meninggalkan seseorang lelaki ni, takkan ada peluang kedua buat si lelaki tu, Mungkin ada lagi perasaan sayang tapi lebih banyak perasaan benci kerana disakiti...



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She’s a good hearted woman. She’s been hurt over and over again. And you would expect her to be heartless by now but her heart is so full of love that she continues to love deeply. All she needs is a good person that will cherish her and give her heart the extra love that she deserves..

yg dikejar tak dapat, yg dikendong berciciran.. ACDYL

If u ask me what i feel..


Ayat di bwh adalah berlawanan..

You’re in a relationship to be happy, to smile, to laugh and to make good memories. Not to constantly be upset, to feel hurt and to cry..


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COMFORTABLE RELATIONSHIP: I think we are all just looking for that one person that we can be ourselves around, that one person who will love you and accept who you are, your silly awkward side and your serious side too. We are all just looking for that “Comfortable Relationship”, you know? You don’t care what you are doing because as long as that one special person is with you, whether it’s going out or just having a lazy day at home watching movies and eating food, you cherish all these moments with them because that special person is the one you enjoy being around everyday. That person is g




"And if you were able to love the wrong person so much, imagine how much you're going to love the right person." -



."And when he asked her what it was that he could give to her that she never had before, her answer was so simple- "Consistency." She said. "If you want to give me something that no other man has ever given to me, then don't give me mixed signals and mixed emotions to leave me wondering. I'm tired of wondering. If you're going to be here with me, then be here. If you ever feel the need to leave, then stay gone. All I want from someone at this point is consistency."



Its really hurt so much when u say i luv u but u put someone else by ur side..




I don't let people in often and I mean what I say. If I tell you you're my friend, that means a lot, if I tell you I love you,
know that it isn't a phrase or expression and know that I actually love you in the best and most honest way that I can..




Nothing loses my interest faster than someone lying to me..

Be strong.. Keep strong..

her son asked..."would you let your maid to look after your cash and jewelleries???"

mak dia jawab.."mestilah TIDAK!!! how i can trust someone like that to look after my precious belongings even for a minute..."

and then her son said.."Then, how could you trust her to look after me all day long every single day. Am i not your precious one???"..





Disaat tiada bahu untuk bersandar mengalirkan air mata.

Ketahuilah kita masih ada sejadah untuk bersujud meluahkan segala derita.

Dan itulah yang terbaik.

Q & Q & Q..

Please answer honestly.. Tq..



1. How much i means to you?

2. Are u happy with ur life?

3. Why u marry her?

4. If i marry u, do u want me to work?

5. How do u know mr Ravi?

6.

hope for me u..

I hope you find someone who knows just how special you really are..
by Brigitte


I hope you find someone who smiles at you every time you walk in the door. Who finds beauty in your scars. I hope you find someone who never leaves you guessing. Someone who lets you know for certain how they always feel about you. I hope you find someone who never hesitates to love you. Who doesn’t just give you pieces of their time but it’s entirety. I hope you find someone who knows just how special you really are. How your soul needs to be loved. I hope you find someone who is your biggest supporter. Who doesn’t just seek attention but gives it in return. But mostly, I hope you find all of these things in yourself first so that you can be ready for this type of love..