Sunday, 16 October 2016

161016..




Assalamualaikum..

Cantik tarikh hari ni kan? So diucapkan selamat hari lahir kepada yang lahir pada tarikh ni.. Semoga sentiasa dilimpahi rahmat & kebahagiaan yang berpanjangan..







Aktiviti saya hari ni?
1.. Bawa anak2 pergi taman.. Riadah menyihatkan badan katanya..
2.. Melawat makcik yang tak berapa sihat..
3.. Shopping barang2 dapur..
4.. Bake a cake..
 5.. Rasa macam nak pegi jln TAR tapi tak tau sempat ker idak..




I love you today and I’ll love you tomorrow, and the next day and even next week.
In 4 months, I will love you, just like I loved you yesterday. 40 years from now, I’ll run my hands through my grey hair and smile at the thought of how much I love you. I just hope you’ll be with me through all that time.




Sras..

Tuesday, 4 October 2016

mylittleustazturns6today..

041010..


MylitteAisy turns 6 today.. I luv you infinity..


# together we baked  & deco with luv.. ðŸ’•







Sunday, 11 September 2016

sets your soul on fire..




When You’re Forcing Love To Stay Alive, It Isn’t Love Anymore.


Sometimes love is ugly, challenging, frustrating, painful – even in the happiest and strongest of relationships. Love takes work. It takes effort. Love is not always light and pretty. It takes the ability to admit when you’re wrong. It takes dedication, it takes loyalty.
But there is a difference between fighting for something that you know is too good to let go of, and clinging on to something that has already died.
Often, deep down, we already know when it’s not love anymore. What it is is familiarity, routine, insurance. It’s something we’ve gotten used to. It’s a security blanket. It’s the guarantee that we aren’t alone. Sometimes the death of love is easier to sense, if we’re with someone who directly makes us incredibly unhappy. And sometimes it’s harder to admit to ourselves, because we’re with someone whom we care about deeply, even if we’re no longer in love with them. But no matter the specific circumstances, we try to convince ourselves that the love is still there, because we’re not ready for the alternative.
And so we grasp onto it, no matter how much our gut resists, because we’d rather cling to something that is dead than willingly step into a world where we are hurt and alone.
It’s not a fault really, not a flaw. Just human nature. It is in our bones to want to be with other people. To feel instantly comforted from the touch or the assurance of another human being. To feel actual, physical pain when we stretch out in bed and are once again reminded that there is no longer a warm body in the place next to us.
But we must remember that there is a difference between forcing love and fighting for it. Forcing love – forcing yourself to feel something – is not love at all. It’s a manufactured emotion your body has created as a coping mechanism, a survival instinct. Forcing love means it’s already dead. And when you spend all your time forcing yourself to love someone, you miss the opportunity to fight for the person who really sets your soul on fire. The choice isn’t easy, but at least it’s yours..
Written by Kim Quindlen





SRAS..

Sunday, 4 September 2016

Andai..



Rasa suka, sayang, kasih dan cinta; tak cukup hanya luahan tetapi perlu diselarikan dengan tindakan. Andai benar anda suka, pasti anda mengutamakannya. Andai benar anda kasih, anda takkan biarkan dia tersisih. Jika benar anda sayang, anda takkan benarkan dia hilang. Jika benar anda cinta, anda pasti sentiasa ingin membahagiakannya. Andai benar anda disukai, anda akan sentiasa dihargai. Andai benar anda dikasihi, anda takkan dibiarkan susah sendiri. Jika benar anda disayangi, keperluan dan kebajikan anda akan disentiasa dipenuhi. Jika benar anda dicintai, anda takkan dibenarkan merana di dalam hidup ini..




ANDAI...











ANDAINYA TAKDIR -AZ

Biarlah tiada pesan dan janji
Biar tiada kau di sisi 
Aku mengerti..

Seterdaya semampuku 
Kucoba menunggu 
Biarlah lompang hatiku ini 
Mengharap pulang kau yang pergi..

Kembalilah kepadaku 
Tika punah mimpi-mimpimu 
Kembalilah di saat perlu 
Episod-episod duka, biar berlalu..

Biarlah waktu ini 
Kau bebas berlari
Jika tersasar hilang arahmu 
Pulang ke pangkal ku menunggu..

Kembalilah kepadaku 
Tika punah mimpi-mimpimu 
Kembalilah di saat perlu 
Episod-episod duka, biar berlalu..

Biar sementara ini 
Tiada terisi kekosongan hati 
Diriku air tenang mengalir tuju muara 
Andainya memang takdir, berakhir, kuredha..

Kembalilah di saat perlu 
Episod-episod duka, biar berlalu..


# dapat mimpi pun dah happy.. Tq..



















Tuesday, 30 August 2016

Aireez or Airyz or Airis or Aierys or Airees..

Assalamualaikum..

Hi awak..

Hari ni terpikirkan sesuatu.. Jika saya ada anak perempuan namanya adalah Airis @Aireez @ Airyz @ Aierys @ Aiereez.. Ejaan berbeza.. Bunyinya tetap sama.. Nama tu dah dapat lama dulu masa mengandungkan Adam.. Sebab ingatkan dapat anak perempuan masa tu.. Dah 7 tahunkan.. Tapi anak perempuan yang ditunggu belum kunjung tiba.. Takpelah.. Semua yang terjadi ada sebabnya kan? Hari ni baru sedar yang nama tu mempunyai makna yang lebih dari tu.. Makna yang sangat bermakna.. Haha.. Apa punya ayat larrr.. That why lar i tak dapat2 anak perempuan agaknya.. Wondering.. Can u guess?

-Airiz-



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TETAMU TAK DIUNDANG

Seorang wanita sedang keluar dari rumahnya apabila dia terlihat tiga orang lelaki tua berjanggut panjang yang berwarna putih sedang duduk dihalaman rumahnya. Dia tidak kenal akan mereka.

Wanita itu bertanya, " Saya tidak fikir saya mengenali awak semua, tetapi saya pasti awak semua mesti sedang lapar. Silalah masuk kerumah saya dan makan sesuatu."
"Adakah suami awak ada dirumah?", mereka bertanya.
"Tidak", wanita itu berkata. "Suami saya telah keluar."
"Jadi, kami tidak akan masuk", mereka menjawab.

Sewaktu suaminya pulang ke rumah pada petang itu, wanita itu pun memberitahunya kejadian tersebut. "Pergi beritahu mereka bahawa saya telah balik dan menjemput mereka masuk kedalam sekarang!"
Wanita itu keluar dan menjemput ketiga-tiga lelaki tua itu masuk ke dalam.
"Kami tidak akan masuk ke dalam rumah bersama-sama," mereka menjawap.
"Mengapa begitu?" wanita itu ingin tahu.

Salah seorang dari lelaki tua itu pun menerangkan :
"Namanya ialah Kekayaan," Dia berkata sambil menunjuk ke arah salah seorang kawannya, dan beralih menunjuk kearah kawan yang seorang lagi, " Dia adalah Kejayaan, dan saya adalah Kasih Sayang."

Dia menyambung lagi, "Sekarang masuklah semula kedalam rumah dan berbincanglah dengan suami awak, siapakah di antara kami bertiga yang kamu ingin jemput kedalam rumah."

Wanita itu pun masuk semula kedalam dan memberitahu suaminya perkara tersebut. Suaminya berasa sungguh gembira.
"Bagusnya!!" dia berkata. "Kalau macam tu jemputlah Kekayaan masuk. Biar dia masuk dan mengisi rumah kita ini dengan Kekayaan!"
Isterinya tidak bersetuju. "Abang, kenapa pula kita tidak menjemput Kejayaan?"

Kebetulan, menantu perempuan mereka juga sedang mendengar perbualan itu dari satu sudut rumah yang lain. Dia lalu menyampuk dan memberikan pandangannya :
"Bukankah lebih baik sekiranya kita menjemput Kasih Sayang? Rumah kita ini pasti akan diselubungi dengan Kasih Sayang!"
"Biarlah kita mengikut nasihat menantu kita itu," kata suami itu kepada isterinya.
"Keluar dan jemputlah Kasih Sayang sebagai tetamu kita."

Wanita itu pun keluar dan bertanya kepada tiga lelaki tua, "Yang mana satu diantara kamu adalah Kasih Sayang? Silalah masuk dan jadi tetamu kami."

Kasih Sayang bangun dan mula berjalan ke arah rumah. Kedua-dua lelaki yang lain juga bangun dan mengikutinya. Terperanjat, wanita itu pun bertanya kepada Kekayaan dan Kejayaan :
"Saya cuma menjemput Kasih Sayang, mengapa kamu juga ikut sekali?"
Mereka semua menjawab: "Jika awak menjemput samada Kekayaan atau Kejayaan, yang lain akan tunggu diluar, tetapi oleh kerana awak telah menjemput Kasih Sayang, kemana-mana sahaja dia pergi, kami akan pergi bersamanya.
...Dimana ada Kasih Sayang, disitu juga ada Kekayaan dan `Kejayaan!"...

Dicatat oleh IBNU MUSLIM

SILA SHARE DAN SEBARKAN



-SRAS-



Saturday, 27 August 2016

not for you & the pain you cause.. part 2..



She scrubbed the pot.
"You have chosen to abandon our marriage but that doesn't mean my whole world has collapsed. I will still continue being a good mother to our children. They will never say the problems between mom and dad, made mom a monster. You do as you please with other women, I will raise our children."
She looked at him and told him, "Do I hate you? No, it will be a lie to say I hate you. You are the man I married, the one I vowed to, the one I love"
Tears fell down her cheeks. She wiped them. "I can't just cancel all the years we have been together. The Quran as well as the Bible asks us to love our enemies. If I am able to love my enemies, surely I can still love you despite all you have done. I am angry and disappointed, but I have taken my power back. I live for God who has exceedingly blessed me, not for you and the pain you cause"
She wiped her wet hands, took the apron from her body and told him, "In my peace, I am planning on where the children and
I will move to. Since you have chosen to have an affair, you have shown clearly that you don't need us. So we will not make your life uncomfortable by forcing you to live with us. You need to be able to bring the woman you are cheating with to your own house. I am working on something. I came into this house in peace and I will leave in peace. You will not kill my smile and shine"
She walked to the bedroom. Minutes later. He followed her to the
bedroom. He found her peacefully asleep.He nudged her. He woke her up and said,
"Please don't go, don't move out. I will hurt you no more, I will cheat no more. I am not OK. I want the peace you have. I want to be the kind of husband you are as a wife."
Since that day, he has been a reformed man. No more affairs, no
more hurting her, no flirting with other women, or endless fights. She didn't move out. She and the children stayed. He submitted to God and learned how to be a good husband, Love is powerful enough to humble the most proud ....... I don't know what you are experiencing this morning but my prayer is ,may you enjoy over whatever you are going through and behold, God is going to rain everlasting peace and freedom upon your life...Amen.

Kindly SHARE this to bless someone out there..

Credit : Pious Muslim Husband and Wife.


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If someone can fall asleep knowing you’re crying, knowing you’re hurting, or knowing you didn’t get home safe, they dont truly care for you...






not for you & the pain you cause.. part 1..



He woke up in the morning and found her praying. He heard her praying for him.He stared at her. It has been a long time since he
has seen her praying. For the past few months, they have been arguing. Last night, they had a nasty fight.He went to the kitchen in a hurry to prepare himself breakfast.

These past days, she hasn't been cooking for him. Shock on him. He found breakfast already set at the table. He ate. He went back to the bedroom, to prepare for a shower. She left the shower. "Good morning. Have a blessed day" she said as she entered the bedroom and he left for the bathroom. After his shower, all dressed up for work; he found his wife at the kitchen, eating breakfast in peace. She was looking at some funny videos on her phone and giggling. He looked at her then walked out the door. The last look he had of her before he left was of her at peace.
That last look disturbed him. This is not how she should be. This is not how she has been. He has been hurting her, she has recently found out that he has been flirting with other women, he has cheated once and used money meant for their family on other women. She should be angry.Her peaceful demeanor disturbed him.

Evening came. He went home and met his peaceful wife again. She was cooking and laughing with their children. She had come from work two hours ago.The dinner was enjoyable. Good food, she having warm conversations with the children. He as the father felt left out. His wife and children seemed to be having fun despite him hurting them.
After dinner, as she washed the dishes and the children had gone to bed. He approached her.
"Are you OK?" he asked her.
"I am more than OK. I am blessed "She answered.
"Are you not mad at me? After all that I am doing and have done wrong?" he asked.

She placed the washed plate in the rack then looked at him and said, "I asked myself, what is the most important relationship in my
life? The one I have with you or the one with God? And I realized it is the one with God. I live for God, not for you. Marrying you was a blessing but it is not all there is in life. God has blessed me with life and I will not waste it crying because of the hurt you cause me to feel"
She picked up a dirty glass and began washing it. "I realized I had given you too much power... Yes, you are my husband, the closest human being in my life and the human being I love the most; but you are not God. You have failed me but God never fails me. I will not let you ruin my joy, my peace and my progress. You break our marriage if you want to, but I will hold on to God. And as I hold on to God, I will be full of joy despite what you do" She said rinsing the glass.

She looked at him and continued, "When you hurt me and disrespected me, I realized I was acting out like a woman who has no God. I got mad and hurled insults, I wanted to revenge and I allowed you to mess me day after day. My performance at work went down, I talked less to our children, I became bitter to the children, I felt sorry for myself, I developed ulcers. And then I realized, I have God, I shouldn't act like someone with no relationship with God. Why should I be hopeless yet God is with me? I had focused so much on you that I forgot about God. When you found me, I had God. We dated and got married and I let everything be about you because I wanted to make our marriage work. Our marriage became the idol I worship instead of the blessing I have in God. Our marriage is failing apart because of you but my relationship with God is still intact"

She scrubbed the pot.
"You have chosen to abandon our marriage but that doesn't mean my whole world has collapsed. I will still continue being a good mother to our children. They will never say the problems between mom and dad, made mom a monster. You do as you please with other women, I will raise our children."
She looked at him and told him, "Do I hate you? No, it will be a lie to say I hate you. You are the man I married, the one